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Highbury · United Kingdom · Northern Europe

Transgender dating
in Highbury

Meet photo verified transgender women and the men who want to date them in Highbury and across the United Kingdom.

Transgender dating in Highbury

The dating site and app for transgender women in Highbury, and the men who want to date them

TRUME is not a mainstream app with a trans checkbox bolted on. It is built from the first screen for transgender women in Highbury and the men across the United Kingdom who genuinely want a relationship with one. Every member is photo verified before they can message, so the person in the picture is the person you meet for coffee in Highbury.

100%

of profiles in Highbury are photo verified before they can message you

2 min

average time to create a profile and start browsing

18+

moderated community, reviewed by real people every day across Highbury

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For transgender women in Highbury

Be seen as a woman first, not a category

TRUME is a transgender dating site and app built for transgender women in Highbury who are tired of being a search filter on mainstream apps. Your profile leads with who you are, what you want and who you want to meet, and only verified men around Highbury can reach your inbox.

  • No fetish messages: intent is declared before anyone can write to you
  • Filter matches by verification, intent, age and distance around Highbury
  • Hide from people you know with incognito browsing
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For the men who date them in Highbury

Date openly, discreetly and without judgement in Highbury

Thousands of men in Highbury want to date transgender women and have nowhere honest to do it. TRUME gives you a private, respectful place to meet real trans women around Highbury who are looking for the same thing you are: dating, a relationship, or something lasting.

  • Nobody from your regular feeds sees you here
  • Real women, verified. No bots, no cam spam, no paid chat
  • Say what you are looking for up front and match faster
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Verification

One live selfie removes every catfish

Before a single message can be sent, every member in Highbury takes a live selfie that is matched against their profile photos by our review team. Verification photos are never shown publicly. It is the single biggest reason members say TRUME feels different from every other transgender dating app.

  • Live selfie check on every new account
  • Verified badge you can filter your matches by
  • Repeat offenders removed permanently, device and all
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Control

You decide who sees you, always

Set your gender, pronouns and who you want to meet in language that actually fits. Blur your photos until you trust someone, go private for a week, or block and report with one tap. Reports from members in Highbury are read by a human, not a bot.

  • Custom gender and pronoun fields
  • Private mode and photo blur until you unlock
  • One tap block and report, reviewed daily
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How TRUME works

From download to first date in Highbury in four steps

01

Create your account free

Email or phone, 60 seconds. No credit card, ever, to join and match.

02

Verify with a live selfie

One quick check proves you are real. It is never shown on your profile.

03

Say what you are looking for

Dating, a relationship or friendship first, shown on your profile so nobody wastes your time.

04

Match and meet

Browse verified members in Highbury, message the ones you like, take it offline when you are ready.

Real members in Highbury

People who stopped swiping and started dating

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I had deleted every other app. On TRUME the first man I matched with was verified, said he was looking for a relationship, and eight months later he still is.

Camila, 29

Matched in Highbury

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I had never been able to be honest about wanting to date a trans woman. Here I just said it, and nobody blinked. We moved in together last spring.

Marcus, 34

Matched in London

Why members switch

TRUME next to mainstream dating apps

What mattersTRUMEElsewhere
Photo verified membersEvery profileOptional or none
Built for trans womenThe entire productA filter option
Intent shown up frontAlwaysRarely
Fetish and bot accountsRemoved dailyEverywhere
Cost to join and matchFreePaywalled
Privacy controlsIncognito mode, private modeBasic blocking

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Transgender dating questions in Highbury

TRUME is a transgender dating website and mobile app designed for transgender women and the men who want to date them in Highbury. It works in any browser and on iOS and Android.

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