Community guidelines

These rules apply to every member, in profiles, photos, messages and off-platform behaviour connected to someone you met here. They exist to keep this community usable for the people it was built for.

Be a real person

One account per person, your own photos, your real age, and completed verification. Impersonation, stolen photos and multiple accounts are removed permanently.

Respect

Transphobia, racism, homophobia, misogyny and hate speech of any kind result in immediate removal. Deadnaming, misgendering after correction, and 'just asking questions' about someone's body are treated as harassment.

Consent

No unsolicited sexual content. No sharing anyone's photos, messages or identity outside the platform. No means no, the first time. Continuing to contact someone after a block, through another account, is a permanent ban.

Prohibited

  • Anyone under 18, in any capacity
  • Commercial sex work, escorting or solicitation
  • Requests for money, gifts, crypto or investment schemes
  • Selling, advertising or recruiting
  • Illegal content, weapons or drugs
  • Threats, doxxing, blackmail or sextortion

Enforcement and appeals

Depending on severity we warn, restrict, suspend or permanently ban. Serious violations skip straight to a ban. If you believe an action was a mistake, reply to the enforcement email within 30 days and a different reviewer will look at the case.

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